hanging up the horn

[markinmi]

This area is probably used more to happy news.but I have to get it off my chest.I lost out on a bid for a better job here where I work that would have changed everything.more money.good hours that would have allowed me time with my wife during the week. 
She is a insecure person to the point of crazy and goes berserk anytime I want to go shoot or do anything.she never wants to do anything including seeing my family or friends.so I thought if I was Homs in the evenings she might let up on me on the weekends,well that's gone now. I don't see anymore opportunities coming my way. In this economy she makes the loins share and I've been busted down to wagesbI made when I was a teenager.
Long story short I'm quitting this game I love so much just too much hassle.we lost our house and live in a dump apartment (where I'm not allowed to clan those stinky guns) my life sucks so bad right now. Sorry all no one to talk to so I had to unload. No I can't leave her even though she treats me like a dog
I could never hurt her

[flintboomer]

Do your best to hang in there, yours is a tough choice.

[pilgrim]

     don't give up,  when everything seems hopeless that is when opportunity knocks. Just need to be alert and not thinking about the rough times.   Definitely don't give up on your hobby.  Don't need to clean the guns at home.  Clean them at the range, using "Moose Milk" or some commercially available cleaner.  Works as good as soap and water and less of a hassle.  No need to remove the barrel from the stock, except to oil and clean the lock innards.

[hotfxr]

so sorry to hear of your predicament, it sucks to be sure." Keep your head up and keep looking forward", as my much missed Nana used to say, "Everything works out for the best in the end". As hokie as that sounds, Nana was usually right. Good luck to you brother and I hope you can keep a hand in this hobby.

[William]

Hang in there, we'll keep you in our thoughts. 

[Cranbrook]

Seems to me that if you give up what you love to do because you're feeling down, you will only hurt yourself more and add to the negative things you have going on in your life right now. If you and your Mrs. are in good health, best to consider your blessings. There are many folks living with ailments that would scare the skin off a buffalo!  Yet most see the good in each day and take them one at a time as a gift from above.     

[Keb]

Mark, I quit once for 13 years. It wasn't the end of the world. I came back and things had changed so much I hardly wanted to participate. I'm betting you'll be OK. Yer pal, Joe

[Red Badger]

You have to do what you have to do... It is tough to make the right decision but you will always be welcome here whichever decision you make.   I have been in some tough spots before and gave up on everything but my marriage, until things turned around and I am back doing most everything I wanted to do back then... I just wish my body was as able to do the skydiving and stuff again...

Jim

[Dogshirt]

Hang in there and know we are here for you.

[Linsey Woolsey]

I feel your pain. In the last six months I was homeless, jobless, very down and depressed. I am a Disabled Vet and folks in my own family look down on me as a slacker, even though I have worked my whole life.

With a little fortitude and perseverance, I have managed to secure housing, find a paying internship, and still managed to hang onto My BP gear. Sold most everything of value, but kept the rifle and gear...Just in case I had to hunt to eat.

Just be aware there is a higher power looking out for you. Losing ones self in a relationship is akin to loosing ones identity. You cannot have a life where both parties are no equal and allowed to pursue your interests. That's not living friend..That is existing..be it all so lousily.

I think you either need to man up or make some decisions about what it is YOU want out of life. I walked away from a 16 year marriage 13 years ago. I was the bread winner, but my ex made me feel guilty even putting gas in my truck. Long story short, she was stepping out, had a $1000 a week blow habit, and was partying my hard earned money away.

Don't cut off your nose to spite your face. Be a man, state your case, press the issue in a firm but kind manner. If it goes over like a fart in church, consider your options. Life is to short to be so miserable. Been there, done it..Not a good way to be.

Good luck with what ever you decide. Don't let set backs get you down. It may be a blessing in disguise. Something else is sure to come along..

[Patocazador]

I can't give anyone advice except myself.

If I were in a similar situation, I'd look in the mirror and ask myself, "Who's responsible for this situation?" After answering truthfully, I'd know whether to stick it out or pack my bags and leave.

Life is short, don't waste what time you have left.

[markinmi]

getting better,I was on a round of meds that were messing my head.still fuzzy but through with them now ,hope I don't need another round thanks all for letting me uncork

[pathfinder]

Forget about "not wanting to hurt her. She is NO HELP TO YOU!  Michigan is a community property state. You won't lose. I know of what I speak. You'll get nowhere dragging an anchor behind you.